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I just finished burying Murphy, my Jack Russell Terrier....

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  1. fatbaldguy

    fatbaldguy In Flower

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    He's in the flower garden off the deck. I'm dogless for the first time in 25 years. I'm all tore up! Who'd ever think a crusty old bassturd like me would cry so much over a dog. I told him to find Lindy, (my other Jack Russell) and wait for me, I'll be along shortly. I'll be distracted all next week in Portland, Oregon with my grandson, so I should be better after I get back. Sorry folks, I guess this just helps me feel better.

    Thanks, FBG
     
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    eileen Resident Taxonomist Staff Member Moderator Plants Contributor

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    It's so difficult to cope when a pet passes away. After all they are a member of your family and a large part of your life so there's no need to apologise to any of us for the way you are feeling FBG.
    Most of our members have already experienced what you are going through now and it's hard to come to terms with. I know that, in time, your grief will diminish and you'll be able to smile about all the good times you had with Murphy but until then you have my deepest sympathy and understanding.

    Have a safe journey to Portland and enjoy the company of your grandson.
     
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    stratsmom Flower Fanatic

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    I am sooooo sorry :'( This weekend will be one year since we put down our golden retriever, Briggs. I still miss him terribly and tear up at the thought of him :( It takes a while but eventually the pain goes away. Try to enjoy your trip and the time with your grandson. Portland is about 6 or 7 hours north of me. Sounds like it is going to be a beautiful weekend. Hang in there.

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    carolyn Strong Ash

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    FBG, My sincerest sympathy. It's so hard to say good by to a pet.
     
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    toni Mistress of Garden Junque Staff Member Moderator Plants Contributor

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    FBG, they really get into your heart and it hurts. Don't feel sorry for sharing your news with us, most of us have been through it too. Sorry to hear about Murphy.

    We had to put our Field Spaniel, Rambo, down three years ago Aug 6 and it still hurts to let myself think about him.

    Talk any time you need, getting it out of your system is the best way to heal.
    Enjoy your grandson next week.
     
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    gfreiherr Young Pine

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    So sorry to hear about Murphy. Losing a pet is hearbreaking. Enjoy your visit with your grandson.
     
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    Frank GardenStew Founder Staff Member Administrator

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    I know how you feel FBG. My parent's dog of 14 years passed 2 weeks ago. I was abroad at the time so didn't get a chance to pat her and say goodbye.

    Sorry to hear about Murphy.
     
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    supersweetmom Seedling

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    I'm so sorry to hear about Murphy's passing.....My condolences.
     
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    Jerry Sullivan Garden Experimenter Plants Contributor

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    Sorry to hear of Murphy's passing. It is tough to loose a pet as they are true friends and companions. They are always there and their absence leaves a hollow place in our heart. He and Lindy will wait, tails wagging.

    Jerry
     
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    So sorry to hear of your little buddy passing away,..it tears your heart out,..can knock a grown man to his knees,..think of all the good things about Murphy.
     
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    Netty Chaotic Gardener Plants Contributor

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    So sorry for your loss FBG.
    I've been there too :(
     
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    FBG, so sorry about your dear little dog. It hurts to loose them. I lost two cats this summer, and a chicken. I have lost lots of pets and loved ones too, it always hurts to loose them. I have a spot out back where I bury my dear pets if they pass. I call it my Memory Garden. Plant some nice flowers on Murphy's grave. It will help a bit. :'(
     
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    Kay Girl with Green Thumbs

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    Oh gosh, I'm so sorry you lost your dog. :'(
    I hope you feel better. It is so hard to lose pets, we just get to love em such a short while.
     
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    Karrma In Flower

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    Here is a photo to make you smile. They are up there playing. Pets are defintitely special, with unconditional love.


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    dog cloud, from dogsmart training systems, vancouver ( photo / image / picture from Karrma's Garden )
     
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    So sorry to hear of your loss FBG, you may have noticed that we lost our dog the day after so I know exactly what you are going through, I like you am all cried out, but we have been there so many times before that it does get better with time.
    Enjoy your time with your grandson. Hopefully he will help to ease your pain.
    Karrma that is an amazing photo, makes you think doesn't it.
     
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