Prayers and good thoughts///the healing begins

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  1. toni

    toni Mistress of Garden Junque Staff Member Moderator Plants Contributor

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    My oldest daughter, Lisa, just called. She is on her way to the hospital to say goodbye to her Dad (my ex).
    They made peace with each other several years ago and have had a workable relationship since then but as you can imagine, this is very hard on her right now.

    He is 65 which is much older than doctors ever expected, he was born with a very serious congenital heart defect.....Interventricular septal defect with a transposition of the great vessels. Corrective surgery about 8 years ago gave him more time but he had a massive heart attack a few days ago and his body is just not able to recover.
     
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  3. cuatro-gatos

    cuatro-gatos In Flower

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    Big hugs for your daughter, and you. This must be
    a very emotional and difficult time for the whole
    family. You will all be in my prayers.
     
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    dooley Super Garden Turtle

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    Our prayers and thoughts are with your daughter and her family at this difficult time in her life. Death is never easy on anyone's family. dooley
     
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    Netty Chaotic Gardener Plants Contributor

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    Lisa has my thoughts and prayers too Toni.
    That will be a very difficult trip I'm sure.
     



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    Biita Arctic-ally Challenged Forager

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    Offerings and prayers are made.

    (((Lisa)))
     
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    eileen Resident Taxonomist Staff Member Moderator Plants Contributor

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    Toni my thoughts are with you and Lisa at this time. I know it must be hard for you both.
     
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    Droopy Slug Slaughterer Plants Contributor

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    Your daughter will be with me in my thoughts. *hugs* I wish her strength.
     
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    EJ Allotmenteer Extraordinaire

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    Thinking of you both at this most difficult of times.
     
  10. toni

    toni Mistress of Garden Junque Staff Member Moderator Plants Contributor

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    Thanks everyone. I know she can use all the hugs, prayers and good thoughts she can get.
    I haven't heard anything from her since that first call so I don't know if they are waiting or if it is over and they just sitting together.
    He donated his body to a medical school, in Ohio I think the one where his surgery was done years ago, so they can research his heart possibly find out what caused the defect and definitely find out how he managed to live this long.
     
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    unicorn2564 Seedling

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    [​IMG] So sorry she has to go through this.
     
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    kuntrygal Texas Rose

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    Toni, so sorry for Lisa and you. I know this is a terrible time for her.Hugs and prayers to Lisa. And even though an 'ex', I know personally I would be devastated. Happily for them them made peace. My son and his dad are so far apart that I don't see that reunion ever happening. Even my son's grandfathers funeral 3 months ago didn't do it. :'(
     
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    Frank GardenStew Founder Staff Member Administrator

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    Very sad to hear this Toni. My good thoughts heading Lisa's and yours way.
    // frank
     
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    kaseylib Young Pine

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    You and your daughter are in my thoughts and prayers...
     
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    Sjoerd Mighty Oak

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    My well-wishes during this most difficult time.
     
  16. tschnath

    tschnath In Flower

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    My hugs and prayers to Lisa and all her family. And for you Toni, ex or not.
     

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