Spare a thought tomorrow....

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  1. EJ

    EJ Allotmenteer Extraordinaire

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    Remember my lovely friend with Huntingtons....well tomorrow she goes into hospital for a hysterectomy. The outlook isn't good, it can advance her condition considerably, or send her into the next world! The chances of her coming home as she went in are slim, but I am being positive, we went shopping together last week, and out for lunch with some of the other mums. Her husband has abandoned their relationship only staying home to look after their son, so he won't be visiting her whilst she is in hossy, so I will be going in on Wednesday, Friday and the weekend until they move her to a convalence home. So, I know many of you have a hotline to the big man, so when you are having your little chat with him tonight, just give Debbie a mention, and those, like me, who never paid that particular telephone bill, just send her a be strong cyber hug, I know from the past on this site, if we all mass our love, it can only do good things.

    Thanks all.
     
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  3. gardengater

    gardengater Young Pine

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    Debbie will certainly be in my healing list and I'll say one for you as well. I know this can't be easy for you, EJ
     
  4. margie12u

    margie12u In Flower

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    God is with your friend

    Hi my name is Margie I am so sorry for you friend, I know she is scared I had cancer and I was absolutly devastated, no one knows what all goes through your mind in that situation, I was so scared I cried and cried I will pray for your friend as people prayed for me, and I no that is what helped me, and I pray it will help your friend,Cancer to me was the worse thing in the world, But then awhile later my husband almost died of kidney failure because they gave him the wrong medicines and it stopped his kidneys he had to be on a kidney machine We both thought he was going to die but God interviend and Wayne knew he was going to be OK , And I really believe at that time Wayne was in Gods hand.A man I had my cancer treatments with ,His wife left him because he was sick, He said he felt so alone, I felt so sorry for him He was all alone and didn't understand why she would leave him all alone at a time in his life he needed her so bad, I am so sorry that her husband left her in her time of need, I really think that is unforgivable, And he will have his time with God and it might not be so good,I really dont know you but we dont have to know each other to have feelings of sorrow for you, My heart goes out to you and your friend , and I hope you will keep me in touch of how things are, you are in my prayers Try to keep your faith up and look to God for strength, He is with us.

    Margie
     
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    Ej, you and your friend will for sure be in my prayers. Bless her heart, I lnow she is scared and feels all alone. And like Margie said, God will have his day with her husband! Such a sorry excuse for a human!
    It is important to pay 'that telephone bill'. Whether it be to God, or some other power. :stew1:
     



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  6. eileen

    eileen Resident Taxonomist Staff Member Moderator Plants Contributor

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    [​IMG] DEBBIE and sending you a a great, big [​IMG]. You'll be in my thoughts tomorrow and I wish you all the very best.
     
  7. Netty

    Netty Chaotic Gardener Plants Contributor

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    Sending my prayers for your friend EJ.
    And big (((( hugs )))) too.
     
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    dooley Super Garden Turtle

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    Me, too. I'll add her to my list tonight. dooley
     
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    Hugs and prayers are coming from Southern Oregon!
    Deanna
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    Sjoerd Mighty Oak

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    You both can count on me.
    ....just for good measure, I shall cross all digits.
    Good luck both of you.
     
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    Many many hugs and I hope for the best for your friend. THis is surely a testing time and I will be thinking of you all as well.
    :stew1:
     
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    You will all be in my thoughts EJ. I'm sending strong good vibes your way, and a couple of big cyber hugs too.
     
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    I sincerly hope the outcome is good for your friend
     
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    Oh Emma, I'm so sorry to hear the news of your friend and how hard it must be for you. Loads of cyber hugs coming your way, you are both in my thoughts today.
     
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    Frank GardenStew Founder Staff Member Administrator

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    Will keep her in my thoughts EJ.
     
  16. EJ

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    I have been over to see her son and still no news. She went down to theatre at 2 and they have told the family not to phone back until 5. Hmmm, I would have stayed at hossy had it been me but as I said, relations have fallen apart. Her estranged and frankly usless husband has said he will knock and let me know how things are later. He won't be going to see her tomorrow for certain so it is a good job I am!
     

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