I think often that when somebody takes their own life it is those of us who remain who suffer more. The legacy left to relatives is extreme painful and can create ripples and waves within the family that can last decades. The question "why" can also become totally consuming. Take care Toni.
More info has been released and just as we thought, they got into an argument, and being one who does not take to being disagreed with easily he went to the dark side.