My new life is shapping up nicely

Category: Pinkies LIfe | Posted: Sat Dec 23, 2006 12:28 pm

Yes yes its been a wlong while. Ive thought about you guys often. Im sitting here waiting for my clothes to get done in the dryer so I can finish packing. Im going home for Christmas..Im leaving this morning and will be in FL until the 3rd. A little vacation for me and I deserve it.

Alot has been happening in my life. It all seems to be happening so fast. Im just hanging on tight and enjoying the ride.

I have to say, that with everything going on, Rob cheating was the best thing he could have done for me. Im discovering so much about myself that I didnt know. I am holding down 3 jobs...not because I have to (he has to pay $1200. a month in spousal support)...but because I want to. I have discovered I enjoy being this busy. I enjoy the fast pace my life has taken on.

Ive discovered that I am so much stronger than I thought. There is nothing in the world that get me down and hold me down for long. My marriage ending has been a hidden gift to me. I am a firm beleiver that everything happenes for a reason. I couldnt think past that when I was in so much pain, but at this point in my life, it couldnt have happened a better time.

I am woman, hear me roar!!! And boy is it LOUD!!!! LMAO!

Ive discovered and still discovering the type of woman I had turned into while all my attention was on him...taking care of him and being the wife I thought he wanted. I am doing for me now.

LOL I was going through my closet one day...I ended up throwing out all my old clothes and went and bought a whole new closet full of cloest (thanks to Rob ;) ) I started getting my hair done. Im in the gym 2 to 4 times a week...if I have the time. I took up salsa and plan on taking up kick boxing. Ive dropped over 100 lbs. I look and feel great. Im going to make sure I have tons of pics taking throughout the trip home so you all can see the new and improved Denee.

And the best part, is I started dating again....nothing serious (so not ready for that...LOL) but Ive gone out on some dates with some great guys.

This is my new life and Im having a blast.

I love and miss you all so much! I cant tell you how much Ive miss you guys!

Everyone have a great Christmas and a wonderful New Years!

'May your greatest wish be the least you receive this Christmas and in the coming year'

Denee

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pondlady wrote on Sat Dec 23, 2006 1:20 pm:

Denee, we hear you ROAR! And it's wonderful to hear. Keep on finding yourself. It sounds like a delightful journey.

eileen wrote on Sat Dec 23, 2006 1:21 pm:

Well done that woman!!! Soooo pleased to hear you have such a full and happy life now Denee. You certainly deserve it after all the hurt you went through with Rob. I'm dying to see the piccies of the new you!!!!

Have a really wonderful time over the festive season in FL. I just know you're going to keep going on to bigger and better things in 2007!!

Lots of love and loads of hugs.

Gardenstew wrote on Sat Dec 23, 2006 1:55 pm:

Merry Christmas and a Happy Happy New Year Denee. Oh yeah and welcome back. Enjoy your FL vacation :)

cajunbelle wrote on Sat Dec 23, 2006 2:04 pm:

You go girl. Have a great Christmas vacation. Wonderful to have you back. Keep on ROARING woman.

glendann wrote on Sat Dec 23, 2006 5:17 pm:

I'm glad you have moved on and having a wonderful time discovering Denee.I can't wait to see your pictures.
Are you painting anything?I
hope you haven't give that part of your life up.Your paintings are just fantastic.
Merry Christmas and Happy New Year to you and your family.Have a safe trip home and do come back and see us soon.We miss you.

muddybob wrote on Sat Dec 23, 2006 11:58 pm:

Good Job! Contratulations on you transformation!

muddy

WUVIE wrote on Sun Feb 04, 2007 8:35 pm:

Wow, what a great thing has happened from such a sad event. More power to you! I'm so glad you found your inner roar!

Hope things are still going as well or better next time you pop in.

Thumbs up to you!
Karen Marie